5 Reasons Why Your Husband Is Cheating on You

Every day, women around the world ask themselves the same eternal question: "Why did he deceive me?" First of all, try to calm down. You don't have to search everywhere or hone your search skills to conclude. Indeed, men who cheat show immorality and lack of fair play in the relationship, but you must also understand that men have been doing this since the beginning of time, it is not a new practice. King David, the second king of the United Kingdom of Israel, has had no less than eight consorts and is not the only one.

So, find out six reasons why your husband is interested in a woman other than you, from the perspective of artist Dapo Fagbenle.

Someone else is drawing his attention

There's only one better thing than great shoes, and that's the new shoes - it's a metaphor, of course, but you've probably got the idea. Unfortunately for all of us, people at some point become self-satisfied and forget what is important to them.

Priorities change and sometimes they question their relationship. "Can I do better?" If the monotony in the couple also appears, then one wonders what else they are looking for with the other.

When a person's mind starts to shake, he does not always analyze the situation in depth. He may look at you and think of "good times, bad times, memories, love, quarrels," all of which is your relationship.

On the other hand, he may look at another woman and not know her dramas or possible inconveniences; all he can see is "a nice, nice person to have sex with." A girlfriend is like a meal cooked at home: good, warm, nutritious, and consistent. But sometimes … he might want to eat fast food.

You are not bold in the bedroom

If your definition of a wild night is to dress up as a nurse to check her "blood pressure", I'm afraid you've been in the past. Imagine that his favorite star is engaging in lawless behavior.

So what makes you think he's happy with classic sex? Being curious about an intimate relationship is not a bad thing, and in no way should you think that you would be easy. Some women think, "If I do this or that, then she'll think I've been like this before." These are the thoughts of an immature and ignorant man.

Faithful men who never cheat will continue to look forward to other women, especially sexually, no big deal. So, if a man already has these fleeting thoughts from time to time, why not give him an extra boost, which will surely spice up your relationship in the bedroom?

Habit intervened

Some men are very superficial. There is a very small chance that he initially approached you because he was just waiting for you to find out what's on your mind and find out what your favorite wine was.

On the contrary, he probably liked what he saw and the way you looked made him court you.

When you met him, he looked extraordinarily good, his skin glowing, his arms muscular, and so on. Then you were content with him and you didn't mind when he was glued to the couch while you wanted to go out and have dinner.

Slowly but surely, the habit intervened and the new girl at work decided to start waving her hair in front of him while asking for the stapler.

He simply enjoys cheating

For every beautiful woman, there is a guy already bored of her. It's a reality, some men have cheated in their blood. A woman can be perfect and can do everything in her power to maintain a happy relationship, but some men are just prone to it.

Reasoning? I do not know. Some will tell you that it is in their nature and that the vast majority of mammals (95% according to one report) have multiple partners. Others will tell you that they had problems with their parents as children.

For example, Eric Benet continually cheated on Halle Berry, one of the most famous and ravishing models in the world. She gave him more changes over time, but in the end, he did the same. Therefore, some men are built that way, to deceive, regardless of the circumstances.

He's not your best friend

What is a friend? One soul in two bodies. The quote is applicable and fits perfectly to start the conclusions. This aspect is constantly ignored and sometimes never taken into account.

Many women who have long relationships are not best friends with their husbands. Haven't you seen how much your husband respects his best friends? How would he do almost anything for them?

If they were best friends, would they stab them in the back or do something unthinkable to them? The answer is most likely no. Therefore, if you were his best friend, it would be much harder for him to lie to you or break a special bond.