Grief Bleeds Here
Platitudes are Unwelcome in This Space
“At least it was early.”
Grief isn’t meant to be contained by a timeline.
But when did you decide loss should be measured in weeks?
“Everything happens for a reason.”
That isn’t true; everything happens for the reason someone chooses to attach.
Or does binding your faith to another’s tragedy prioritize your closure?
“Well, you can try again.”
Certainly, but that doesn’t negate the life gone.
Or is it acceptable to merely dismiss lost potential in favour of its future replacement?
“You just need to relax more next time.”
Causes go far beyond generic stress.
Yet, why does it benefit you to attribute blame onto the already grieving mother?
“My friend had one but has kids now.”
Shared positive stories do not negate someone’s lived experience.
Were you even asked?
“Time heals all wounds.”
Grief has no timeline.
What histories still linger under your own skin?
PSA: Acceptable Responses
“I’m sorry for your loss.”
“I’m here for you.”
“Take what time you need.”
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Jennifer Mckinney
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The chipped stone slope caused unbearable footing. I slid, skirting on my heels. I cast my shield, relinquishing my guard to stay upright. Left with my double-edge and a prayer to the maker, I skated toward my objective. The earthly stubble gave way to solid ground. I found myself restored, a trail of dust in my wake.
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Reading this, I felt both seen and reminded of those moments when well-meaning words missed the mark entirely. Your poem makes space for grief without judgment, and that honesty resonates strongly.
Omgggg, this is so true! I don't know why people feel those are acceptable responses. Like just shut up, ugh! I hope you didn't experience this though I don't know how I'm not subscribed to you anymore, because I know for a fact that I was. Anyway, I've subscribed again now hehehe