Learn to make happiness for yourself and reap the true happiness that comes from within

Ordinary people's day looks no different, but what makes a difference is that you use what kind of mentality, what kind of taste, what kind of emotional appeal to spend every day.

Read such a story: a reporter once went to the home of a particularly poor female worker to send warmth. Before leaving, he had received information indicating that the female worker had two children, one of whom was disabled; Her husband died of illness several years ago and owed a lot of money. This female worker salary is not much, already have to feed whole family, want to repay debt more.

It must have been a very dirty and poor family, the children crying all the time, the women unkempt and sad... Thinking of this, the reporter sighed and expressed deep sympathy.

The next day, went to the woman's home, at first glance, he thought he was looking for the wrong place, after repeated verification, just dare to confirm. Originally, that woman worker is smiling to receive a reporter, and the whole person is cheerful and enthusiastic; Into the home, there are very beautiful paper curtains, utensils on the stove are few, but particularly clean. The reporter TOOK THE sliPPER THAT THE WOMAN HANDS OVER, SOLE IS DONE WITH OLD LIBERATION SOLE, VAMP IS THE NEW DESIGN THAT REPAIRS WITH OLD WOOL.

When interviewing a woman, she said, the present life is pretty good, refrigerator, washing machine is given to her after the neighbor is eliminated, with very handy. And the child is very sensible, often help her work, the family lived very happy, she was content. No matter in good times or bad, can calmly up, enjoy the beauty of life. This attitude of loving life will make the family full of sunshine and warmth.

Life, can be very ordinary, but must be full of interest, so as to make the sad day, out of the flower you want. There is no guarantee that the future will be smooth sailing. But living in a fun family, children in the love of the nourishment, master the skills and mentality to make life happy and beautiful, encounter setbacks will not be at a loss, broken can broken, this is the real win at the starting line.

A good state of mind can harvest more happiness. Remember at least one good thing that happened today. No matter how hard today, how unhappy, back home, should share a good thing today with the family. Instead of trying to solve all your life's problems in one day, allow yourself to break down the difficulties calmly and make a plan to take one small step each day and gradually succeed.

Some people may say, if I have a good environment, good economy and good health, of course I will be happy. If I have a bad environment, bad economy and bad health, will I be happy? I have read a sentence that says, when I have physical strength, I will use physical strength to live, but when my physical strength is not good, I will use ability to live, when I lack ability, I will use wisdom to live. Feeling life together because only in this way to live, no matter what happens to their body condition, can also face bravely, calmly accept, rational solution.

More physical energy allows us to pursue more possibilities and develop more interests. When physical strength is lacking, ability is the ability to solve problems, to create happiness, to create atmosphere, to enjoy happiness, and that includes all aspects, including mastery of new knowledge and skills. For example, learning to shop online, learning to buy air tickets, train tickets, bus drivers and hotels online, travel and shopping will become very easy. With the ability, we can share the fruits of the country's reform and opening up, and share the convenience and joy brought by high technology.

True happiness must come from within, and pleasure from the outside can only reduce a moment of sorrow. Because, any other people give things are uncontrollable, there is no certainty. Only when we have the ability to make happiness can we meet and never abandon happiness. If you want to create happiness and have happiness, go to be a grateful person, go to be a broad-minded person, go to be a person who keeps on learning and making progress.