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Never Laugh at Woman's Pain

A life lesson learned that we (women) should NEVER Laugh at a Woman's Pain.

By Gladys W. MuturiPublished 2 months ago 5 min read

This story involves a life lesson learning experience for all women that they need to know and understand why they should never laugh at a woman’s pain because when she deals with it you will endure what she has. This story involves reality star and business Miss Nikki, former NBA basketball player/ wannabe rapper Gelo Ball, and Wild n Out gal Rashidia Nicole. Before I start to address this whole story and this is not a diss towards anyone, honestly, I was never involve in their lives and it is not my business to tell so. This is just a epitome of never laughing at woman’s pain.

Reality star and businesswoman Miss Nikki Baby and NBA ball player and son of Lavar BaLiAngelo Ball first connected at a hike and two began dating. Before they became a couple, Ball was already in a relationship with another woman so I read on social media. Miss Nikki Baby and Gelo announced on People that they were expecting their first baby together.

Around the time they were together, Lavar and his family liked and respected MissNikkiBaby. They were even at their sons baby shower. Gelo and MissNikkiBaby welcomed their son LeVelo in 2023.

After two years going on strong, the two welcomed their daughter Laniyah in 2024 that was until four weeks later after the birth of their daughter, Gelo admitted to cheating on her and getting another woman. Gelo left her and their two children though they agree on co-parent their children. MissNikkiBaby released a statement letting everyone know that her and Gelo are over and that he was cheating on her with another woman.

The woman he cheated was identified as Rashida Nicole, a social media influencer, podcaster, and a Wild n Out gal.

Nicole posted their relationship on Instagram confirming their relationship. Nicole received a lot of backlash for being with Gelo. She called out everyone on social media claim that Miss Nikki is a racist, homophobic, and that she has never been around her kids.

During their relationship, Gelo and Rashida went public with their relationship, Gelo showers his new girlfriend with gifts including a brand new G wagon.

At the 2024 BET Awards red carpet, Gelo and Nicole were together when Nicole and Gelo posed together. A reporter tells them to kiss, Nicole leans for the kiss on the cheek. Gelo swerved on Nicole refusing to kiss her on the cheek.

Which became a huge 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Nicole laughs it off like it was no big deal and says to the reporter:

“Girl, I’ll let him do what he wants to do.”

Like he is a child. HE IS A GROWN MAN.

Then, TMZ caught up with Gelo and Rashida outside leaving the courthouse. At first I thought he was going to court to fight for custody for Nikki’s kids but it turns out they were at the courthouse filing for their marriage license. So, the two had married in court. This is what I don’t understand why he was with MissNikkiBaby for three years and had two children with him that shows how lame he truly is.

Nicole confirmed her pregnancy on Instagram expressing her excitement carrying Gelo’s baby but didn't mention about her marriage nor thanking Gelo.

After the post, Gelo filed for divorce from Nicole without letting everyone know that they are married so he has been with MissNikkiBaby for three years, had two children, and still he never gave her the ring.

Miss Nikki Baby went on to the Jason Lee show to spill the beans on what happened with her and Gelo and how she found out that Nicole was pregnant.

Rashida call out MissNikkiBaby again for harassment.

After staying radio silent for a while, Nicole posted on Instagram confirming that she and Gelo are going through a divorce, she endured the pregnancy without any help from Gelo and wasn't present at the birth because she told and guess what he moves on to another woman. Mmmmmm…..Nicole issued an apology to Miss Nikki Baby and her family for disrespecting her and putting her through trauma. She declared that her and her family have been supportive of her throughout her pregnancy.

Luckily she gave birth to beautiful daughter Lilo. Also, this is another example, Safaree Samuel, Nicki Minaj ex of 10 years while he was with Nicki. Their 2014 breakup was contentious, involving public accusations of assault, theft, and infidelity via social media. Samuels claimed to have co-written some of Minaj's rhymes, while Minaj accused him of stealing her credit cards.Then he went on Love and H and lastly his soon to be ex wife Erica Mena honestly I thought their so-called relationship was a effing joke because Safaree doesn’t take things seriously and on top of that he’s a narcissist. Mena and Samuel married in 2019, had two children, Mena had dissed Nicki Minaj while she was married to Safaree then filed for divorce in after two years of marriage due to Safaree’s infidelity.

Mena would go on podcast later apologize to Nikki Minaj for dissing her while she was married to Safaree.

Lastly, AmberRose was in tumultuous relationship with Kanye West aka “Ye” before he went over the top Krazy. Amber Rose had said interviews that Kanye has been controlling and forced Amber to dress sexy just the way he wants. After they broke up, the two moved on. Amber married Wiz Khalifa, had a son, then divorced in 2016. After Amber, Kanye married Kim Kardashian in 2014, had four children, then divorced in 2022. Now, Kanye is married to Bianca Censori and he dresses her in a sexy disturbing provocative way which is no surprise to AmberRose.

She went on ClubShay podcast expressing why she is not surprised that Kanye "Ye" was making his current wife dressed like well you know.

In the words of Maya Angelou,

"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time"

A reminder to learn the person and not to waste your energy on a lowlife.

In closing, I am hopeful for Rashida's daughter will be able to bond with Miss Nikki Baby's children. I feel like it is going to get worse for her and Gelo since now that the baby is here. As for Gelo, he needs to be careful what happens to him because Karma is real. He needs to stop being mister community d**k cause he is lucky to raised in a two parent household and messing up his life with multiple baby mamas.

What do you think????

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Gladys W. Muturi

Hello, My name is Gladys W. Muturi. I am an Actress, Writer, Filmmaker, Producer, and Mother of 1.

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  • SoftlyWished2 months ago

    This is a powerful reminder about empathy and accountability. Pain isn’t entertainment, and patterns often repeat when we ignore the warning signs. Thank you for sharing such an honest perspective.

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