Emily Chan - Life and love sharing
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Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing
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Uncluttered Living
In this life, the more you calculate, the more worries you will have; the more tolerant you are, the more happiness you will experience. Strive to live your life well; occasional chaos and occasional tranquility each have their own flavor. Live sincerely, work hard, and live well.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing2 days ago in Poets
The Audacity of Awakening
The reason many women lead such exhausting lives is not a lack of capability, but a surplus of patience. They spend years waiting—waiting for a partner to mature, waiting for someone to finally show they care, or waiting for a golden opportunity that is never destined to arrive. Eventually, a realization sets in: waiting is nothing more than slow exhaustion, while the "dare" is the act of turning around and walking away.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing3 days ago in Poets
Returning You to the Crowd
There is a kind of love called "Returning You to the Sea of People." I used to think that when two people separated, it was because they no longer loved each other, or because someone had committed a mistake so heinous it brought the relationship to an end.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing4 days ago in Poets
The Reset Button of the Soul
Returning to being alone is about rediscovering yourself, not retreating into loneliness. Sometimes, people see "being alone" as a fallback, but it is more like a reset button. It’s not about forcing yourself back into isolation, but about understanding that some companionship only drags you down, and some relationships only drain you. Rather than forcing yourself to bloom beside the wrong person, return to your own soil and grow into the person you’re meant to be.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing5 days ago in Poets
The Weight of Unconditional Love
Some people love you because of what you've done for them; this kind of love seems calculated. But some people love you simply because you are who you are. They don't want you to be like anyone else, nor do they expect you to exhaust yourself. They even want you to cherish yourself, and they worry about you losing yourself.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 days ago in Poets
Reclaiming Your Energy
Don’t let others delay your decisions for too long. Many people only truly learn how to make decisions after entering a relationship. Because their current living conditions are often stable—they have enough to eat and wear, and even in difficult times, they won't be destitute—it is relationships that most easily trap people in a tug-of-war of exhaustion and hesitation. It is these connections that most easily force you to confront your true self.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing9 days ago in Poets
The Quiet Strength of Wanting Nothing
"When I Want Nothing, No One Can Make Me Sad Anymore" Some people don't suddenly become indifferent; rather, they are driven to it by repeated disappointments. The words you spoke, the expectations you set, and the things I once tried so hard to grasp—all eventually became the weight that crushed my heart. Then I understood: it wasn't that I wasn't good enough; it's just that I cared too much. The more you care, the easier it is to be shaken; the more you give, the easier it is to be hurt.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing10 days ago in Poets
Rewriting Relationship Command Code
This year, I have almost completely cut off contact with most of my friends. It wasn't a dramatic falling out, but rather a gradual fading of ties. After seeing some people for who they truly are, I felt there was no longer any point in maintaining the relationship.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing11 days ago in Poets
