Randolphe Tanoguem
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Don’t Marry the Girl Who Wants the Wedding
Not “Do I love her?” Not “Can I afford the ring?” Not even “Will she say yes?” The real question — the one that determines whether you’ll live in a home or a battlefield — is simpler, deeper, and far more dangerous to ignore:
By Randolphe Tanoguem4 months ago in Journal
From Outsider to Essence
For as long as I can remember, I’ve carried a tension inside me that I couldn’t explain. On the outside, I could talk with people, relate to their stories, share in their laughter, even understand their struggles. And yet, deep down, I always felt… out of sync. As if I was standing half a step outside of the rhythm everyone else seemed to dance to.
By Randolphe Tanoguem4 months ago in Journal
Monetizing the Fall
There’s a specific kind of video you’ve seen a thousand times — a person crying into their phone camera, breaking down on a live stream, confessing secrets they swore they’d never share, or capturing the exact moment they get fired, dumped, or canceled. And while the moment is painful, maybe even real, it’s what happens after that reveals the game:
By Randolphe Tanoguem5 months ago in Journal
Instinctive Strategy
You’ve probably been told to “trust your gut.” You’ve also been told to “think things through.” And yet, when the pressure’s on — when everything is moving fast, and the stakes are high — neither extreme seems to work.
By Randolphe Tanoguem5 months ago in Journal
The Disposable Man & The Optional Woman
You’ve heard the phrase before — “Protect women and children first.” It echoes through history like a noble drumbeat. And in times of war, disaster, or collapse, it becomes law. We don't question it. We act on it. Because deep inside the collective psyche, we have been trained to believe that a woman’s life is precious.
By Randolphe Tanoguem5 months ago in Journal
