MATURELY IMMATURE

How strict are your parents?

WARNING⚠️ : This answer is written by a non-human who is not in his normal state right now and you might find it unreadable, immature, and cringe.

Okay so

1)I am allowed to go on particular parts of the terrace only i.e. I am not allowed near the boundaries.

I usually go in the evening everyday to watch the sunset and for some time away from family (it isn't even away, my sister comes with me there too)

Some boys come to stroll in the evening nearby

My dad thinks I go to the terrace to see girl that's why I don't go near the boundaries or I won't be allowed to go to the terrace.

2) If I stay on the terrace for long, they will start calling , “What are you doing on terrace for so long?”

If they hear me talking, even when I am talking to myself (pretending to be in a speech competition or something), they will assume I am talking to my girlfriend.

3)My parents didn't let me go out of home for 2 months or something because they thought I go cycling only for some girls who cycle in the evening.

4) Same , if a girl arrives as a Neighbour, it's understood that I won't be allowed out much.

5) Not allowed to wear shorts below my waist or saggy jeans

6) Not allowed to talk to girls, not even classmates

7) Can't go to stroll in the street after dark

One day I had gone to search my mom ( he was outside) , and a random Neighbour girl just crossed the street from the opposite side, my dad scolded me a lot for no reason. Just because that girl came across me…

8) I have a curfew in almost everything. Time restrictions.

9) If I talk for more than half an hour to my offline friends , they start roaming around my room to listen to conversations and say to me “You have been talking for so long, aren't you?”

10) My mom hates texting a lot. Even if I am writing , she will think I am texting someone.

11) We were not allowed to listen to music until I was 13 when my mom said “You can hear a bit now and then, but don't make this a habit”

12) My dad never let me take part in any function in school.

So I have no experience of how it is . How preparations are done etc. .

My mom and dad think , everything except studies is useless and a waste of time. They never appreciated my talents and they never even appreciated my academic score and said , “It could have been better”

13) I am not allowed to have Instagram

My mom thinks it's for relationships and all

14) I am not allowed to post anything anywhere like I am doing right now

That's why I keep changing names and not one of them is real

15) My dad doesn't even spare my female cousins. He says they are spoilt and he always hesitated in sending us to our maternal uncle's home for Raksha Bandhan and other occasions.

Maternal uncle - Mom's brother

16)They will blame me if they see me crying. They will say I have gone mad. I can't let them know whenever I cry.

17) Bro, combing hair every day is basic right? My mom and dad, when they taunt me, they say “ Haven't you got anything to study? You just stand in front of the mirror the whole day and do fashion”

18) The same thing. Saying “fashion” in basic things

When I was getting ready for coaching, my dad passed this comment.

And, he will say, come with me to xyz place.

Even if I am lying in a homeless condition, he will not let me at least wear basic clothes like tshirt and jeans. He considers them fashionable too. He says, “Are you going to a wedding?”

19) I was never allowed to go to picnics and birthday parties of friends.

20) I am not let to make basic or even important decisions of my life. They control me.

My dad forced me into this shitty coaching. And now after a lot of struggle in one year, I somehow got used to it and tough, he is forcing me to join the school for boards and leave coaching. Also I hate biology from the core of my heart and he forcefully made me take biology as an additional subject since I took math's as main subject against his wish.

21) They think their honor is more important than the life of their children ( observation based on some incident not with me)

22)I am not allowed to leave my hair open except on special occasions like weddings etc . That too if they are of close ones. Except them, my parents think it's for attracting others and unnecessary

If I remember more points , I'll write them later.

I have never done anything in my whole life that would make them not trust me, but still they blame all this stuff on me... Like why?

My parents are this strict that even if a small thing happens, the first thing that comes to my mind is “My parents will un@Iive me”