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Reasons Why Women Fake Orgasms
Ah, the tale as old as time. Boy meets girl. Boy takes girl out on date. Girl goes home with boy. Girl decides she wants to sleep with guy. You start fooling around a little bit. And then...nothing. He's been going down on you for at least 25 minutes and you're starting to get anxious. No matter how hard you focus, or how good whatever he's doing feels, you cannot climax. The reasons why women fake orgasms are vast. Maybe you're nervous. It's the first time you've slept with this person and you're having performance anxiety. Maybe he keeps changing direction right when your about to go over the edge, and it's a new partner that you don't feel comfortable correcting. Or maybe, just maybe, you're hate-fucking your ex for the 100th time and seriously, at this point your mental block is just too big for you to physically have an orgasm. You've reached the point of no return. You either want the act to be over completely or you at least want to move on to the full penetration portion of the evening. But your partner is a giver (so he thinks), and refuses to stop until you've climaxed. So what do you do now?
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
Vintage Rules for Being a Lady. Created with: OG Collection.
It worked then, and it still works. The rules for being a lady are as much applicable today as they were decades ago. That's not to say, there is not an appeal to the crass biker chicks making their daily appearance on social media GIFs. But there is something grand and sexy about the sophisticated lady that never goes out of style. Maybe it is more fun thinking about taking your clothing off, when you are actually wearing clothing to begin with. Problem is, in a "me" generation obsessed with instant gratification, no one wants to take the time to read the rules. So read the vintage rules for being a lady and get current with what real men are into.
By OG Collection 9 years ago in Filthy
Things Women Think While Receiving Oral Sex
Oral sex out is one of the greatest sexual pleasures of all time. Having a someone between your legs, while you pull their hair and claw at the sheets is what every woman wants, isn’t it? Sure it is, but unlike men who can shut down their brain and become sex driven idiots who barely know their name, women aren’t always so lucky. Unless you’re anticipating the act and rightfully prepared to be spread, licked, and poked, the act of having a man go down on you isn’t always glamorous.
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
Anal Sex for Beginners
Anal sex. Just mentioning the act puts a look of fear on the faces of some, and a faraway look of pleasure of the faces of others. Though anal sex is really nothing more than a normal alternative to intercourse, like oral sex or masturbation, many people are reluctant to even discuss it, much less attempt it.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Grooming Tips for Men
Men have never been cleaner. Seriously, our hygiene should be given a round of applause from how far we’ve come. Gone are the times where we bathed once a week between games of Call of Duty, gone are the times we only brushed our teeth before a school dance, gone are the times we only wore shirts and ties to school, funerals, and weddings. Men’s style and grooming has moved on, even the so called “hard men” are immaculate these days. But it pays to be humble, and there is still room for improvement, so here are some grooming tips to for men keep yourself the well-groomed force of nature you think you are. As far as most women are concerned, the cleaner the better, and if you're planning to find and keep a partner, these tips are a great place to start.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
How to Become a Female Porn Star
When I first started making waves in the adult industry, my roommate at the time (a practicing makeup artist by day and suffering waitress by night) asked me if I could help her get some scenes. At first I was genuinely annoyed. I worked for years to get to where I am in this industry and not one person helped me along the way, why should I help anyone else? Oh right, because I have a conscience.
By Samantha Bentley9 years ago in Filthy
How to Choose a Movie to Have Sex To
It’s date night. Whether that means you have shipped the kids off to Grandma’s for the night or you really are still at the dating stage (aww), date night doesn’t have to involve going out. Let’s face it—when the clock comes at a premium and you want uninterrupted sexy time, going out just isn't worth it.
By Ailish Delaney10 years ago in Filthy
Why You Should Talk to Your Lover About Poop
When two people fall in love, it is not uncommon for them to go through a lot of grueling and time consuming tactics to primp and impress their new lover. This is not an unreasonable routine. Everyone wants to feel confident in their appearance, especially when a new love interest comes along. Blemishes are caked with layers of makeup, hairs are shaved and waxed and plucked over and over again, while deodorant and perfume and cologne are used tirelessly to mask the unpleasant odors that come with having a human body.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Date Your Friend's Sister
You’re an older kid—you have that college boy, sweat, and cheap cologne smell. When you went over to your friend's house for a post-soccer-game hangout turned sleepover, she walked to the bathroom across the hall in a gray oversized t-shirt, stopped in the door frame, and smiled that brace-filled grin.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Become a Male Porn Star
Every. Single. Day. At least one guy will tweet me asking, "How do I get into porn?" The short answer is, "You don’t." But for those of you that actually might have the drive, perseverance, and sheer talent to be a male porn star, Imma break it down for you.
By Samantha Bentley10 years ago in Filthy
Why to Match Heels and Lingerie
Think about the last time you watched bondage porn. The silicone-pumped, bare-naked kitty threw open the bathroom door and revealed a long riding crop. A spray tanned, fake-accented male tried to bounce out of the zip ties tying him to a chair. Kitty put her leg on the tub, moving her crotch to the center of the screen. In that moment, what did you notice? Her matching lingerie and high heels? Good. You should notice. It’s one of the most important parts of the scene. Without matching lingerie, garters, hose, and heels, where would your attention be? Probably counting tiles on the floor, or comparing your ceiling trim to the bathroom’s cornice molding. Matching makes the scene, and it should be the central feature in your sexy wardrobe. Without it, you are Sandra from after the ninth-grade dance, wearing a pink bra and orange panties with purple butterflies.
By Lizzie Boudoir10 years ago in Filthy
Orgy Advice for Women
Forewarned is forearmed. At least that's what Tracy Cabot, a well-known writer on sex and relationships believes—especially when it comes to orgies. She has presented us with comprehensive orgy advice directed toward women. Girls like to have a little (or a lot) of fun too! Am I right?!
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
