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Fine Art of Giving Head
I like to suck cocks. I’m good at it. Unfortunately, not every girl is. Some girls think all one has to do is put the thing in your mouth and roll it around a bit. The guy should be grateful for special favors? Not so, girls! Suppose a guy was going down on you? How would you feel if he just put his mouth down there, rooted around for ten seconds, and let it go at that?
By Lizzie Boudoir10 years ago in Filthy
What Not to Do at an Orgy
An orgy is not a free for all. Contrary to popular opinion, there is actually a best practice for an orgy. There are dos and don’ts. There is etiquette and there are standards. There is no limit to the amount of people that can participate in an orgy, but there is a point of diminishing return. There are no limits as to the gender, religion, or race of participants. But like the United Colors of Benetton, a good orgy strikes a balance between all identities and sexual preferences. Now, for those of you who have yet to participate in a proper orgy, the dos seem pretty logical and simple: take pleasure and have lots of sex. It is the don’ts, or the things better off not experienced, that make the difference in a successful orgy.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Photograph Nude Models
In my limited experiences as both a photographer and a roue, I have found it generally to be more difficult to persuade an attractive young woman to remove her clothing for purposes of art photography than for purposes of engaging in an illicit tussle in the hay. Such persuasion is definitely an art, but is not impossible. Masters such as Terry Richardson have made careers of it. With one of his first campaigns featuring women in short skirts with public hair showing, few would argue that Richardson didn't master this skill set early on. So how does he do it? How can an aspiring photographer entice women to pose for him as if she were posing for Terry Richardson?
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Best Sex Positions
Knowledge is power, especially when it comes to sexual positions. Beyond what you see in the movies, there is actually a step-by-step process for sexual positions and rich sexual experiences. While you know what missionary position and doggy style are, do you know which to use based on the mood you and your lover are seeking? Do you know which positions are best accentuated by her wearing heels, and which are better for a partner who wants to feel in control? Whether you're looking for a fast and furious orgasm or a long and sensuous night of holding one another, the position you choose is almost as important as how well you execute it. This sex position guide is designed to help you make an informed decision. If you are the kind of person who actually reads the instructions, you know that is the best way to get the job done. Sex is no different than a 1200 piece lego model. Follow the visual guide, and get the job done.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Pick Up Girls
There's more to life than meeting beautiful women, taking them out, and bringing them home to bed. But who cares about that? So why do some men have trouble picking up girls? Well, some men are shy and some have had repressive childhoods and feel guilty about sex. Now there is absolutely no reason to feel this way. Let's get this straight from the start—there's nothing wrong with lusting after women. If there was, God wouldn't have created women.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Mistakes Men Make in Bed
Sex, love, and men are the major subjects of modern girl talk, but that doesn’t mean she’s singing your praises left and right. When girls get together to talk about such topics, much of what they say is negative. Women go to their friends with tales of the mistakes men make in bed in hopes of finding advice on how to prevent these mistakes in the future. More often than not, they find friends that can relate, but no solution to their problem. We have interviewed women from all walks of life and gathered their accounts of the most common mistakes men make in bed. So if you want your partner to be the only one amongst her friends who has nothing to say except, "He’s fantastic in bed," read carefully and be the man who’s willing to put in effort to make that difference.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Art of Erotic Massage
The manager of a massage parlor called a number left with his answering service in response to an ad for masseuses he had placed in several college and underground newspapers. His call was greeted by a mature and enthusiastic voice: "Hello!"—it was a recording—"This is Tracy McNeal, the girl you've been looking for! And I have a new toy, it's a telephone recorder. Won't you help me play with my new toy? It's easy, all you have to do is leave your message, name, and number after you hear the beep, and we'll be speaking soon! Bye!"
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Long Distance Relationship Sex Advice
You have been in a relationship for quite some time and everything is going wonderfully. And then one day, the job she's been dreaming of comes along. She has the opportunity to work abroad for an entire year and she will be back in a blink, she says. You are excited for her, but how are you going to keep your relationship afloat?
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Vintage Sex Advice Books. Created with: OG Collection.
Sex advice is a combination of art and science. It has not evolved much over the decades, unless you count learning how to use Tinder, or simple guidance like "don’t trust Ashley Madison." The most valuable advice comes from a vast library of source material that may not get you laid by swipe, but will certainly prove useful in solving legitimate relationship issues and in one on one dating. Vintage sex advice books provide a window to the views of authentic sex advice gurus.
By OG Collection 10 years ago in Filthy
Why to Use Natural Condoms
With virtually all men using condoms these days, there remain a lot of unanswered questions: Which type provides the safest protection against disease? Which allows the most feeling? How do you put it on without losing spontaneity? The condom has come into its own as a contraceptive. Men and women alike—the smart ones at least—are beginning to think of the rubber as a friend, not a nuisance.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Could You Be a Sex Surrogate?
"It's an open secret," one Los Angeles psychiatrist told me more than a year ago, "but lots of us are using sex surrogates now. For some clients, we've tried everything, and this is the only thing that works. It's a very powerful therapeutic adjunct." A colleague put it in homelier terms: "After all, you don't learn how to play tennis by talking about it."
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
