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How Emotions Control Sex. Top Story - August 2021.
Emotions control sex. They determine what we want in bed, how much we enjoy the sex, and if we even want it at all. As a sex therapist, this is something I remind my clients of all the time. Because it’s easily forgotten.
By Leigh Norén4 years ago in Filthy
Less Is More
It's 1921 and Whitney can't step outside her home even for a minute. She's scared of the wolves in the form and shape of human men outside waiting for her. They are waiting to rip her apart with their lust and passion and wildness and lack of getting near anything feminine gendered.
By Inquirer4 years ago in Filthy
How Healthy Relationship Communication Skills Will Improve Your Love Life
What makes great sex? Lots of stuff. For some, it’s about the gadgets; sex toys, lube and lingerie all keep the spark alive. For others, especially those I help as an online sex coach and sex therapist - great sex is about healthy relationship communication skills.
By Leigh Norén4 years ago in Filthy
Key Saftey Tips for the New Kink Explorer
Since the idea and forming of the kinky community, we have always had mentors. But now we have Google, it's probably how you found this article. So welcome to my creative world of kink.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond4 years ago in Filthy
Why Good Sex is More About Chemistry than Anatomy. Top Story - August 2021.
The moment he laid eyes on her, he knew he had to have her. Her form intoxicated him. The curve of her hips and the arc of her back. She was shaped like a coke bottle with big tits, thick thighs, a fat ass, and a small waist. The way her long dark flowing hair framed her round face added to her mystery. Her full lips were painted blood-stain red. In contrast, her dark smoky eyeshadow brightened her tea-colored irises.
By Stacey Herrera5 years ago in Filthy
Kiss and Tell The World
Why are we afraid to talk about sex? How many people have you slept with? Where's the weirdest place you've had sex? What's your dirtiest sexual fantasy? When was the last time you had an STD Check?
By PoetsCloset5 years ago in Filthy
There Is No Such Thing as Extra Sex
"Sex is like air; it's not important unless you aren't getting any." — John Callahan With all the chaos in the world, my spouse and I have figured out how to keep our sex life in balance, or at least I thought we had. Being locked in with your significant other for 24 hours a day, seven days a week, can become uninspiring in the bedroom. There are the small (and big) things your partner does that get on your last nerve. Nevertheless, we have kept it hot, but it takes work.
By Toni Crowe5 years ago in Filthy
Sex Tips for Women: Hinting for Sex
Let's face it, sometimes men are simple creatures and enjoy simple requests. If anyone has ever seen the movie What Women Want, men would effectively have the code to our thoughts and opinions of what we want and how we want it.
By Heather Wilkins5 years ago in Filthy
For the Ladies
So ladies this one is for you (fellas you may wanna scroll on by for a bit...) I was talking to a male friend of mine the other night and he was frustrated.
By Rebecca Brooks5 years ago in Filthy
Give to me Baby
Have you ever been with someone who flat out did not know how to “float your boat”, “push your buttons”, “make your bobber bobble”?
By Rebecca Brooks5 years ago in Filthy
Talk "Dirty" to Me...
SUGAR AND SPICE AND EVERYTHING NICE, THAT’S WHAT GIRLS ARE MADE OF…… You know that old rhyme, the one that reminds us as little girls to be sweet and be kind. To stay “good” no matter what. What happens though when you want to be more spice than sugar? More naughty than nice?
By Rebecca Brooks5 years ago in Filthy
I Was Tired of The Daily Pandemic Walk, So I Suggested Daily Sex Instead
“It takes more than SEX to build a great marriage, but it is nearly impossible to build a great marriage without it!”—davewillis.org
By Toni Crowe5 years ago in Filthy