fetishes
Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
My Dom from Hell
I heard a lot of horror stories in the past of S/D relationships, or I heard some juicy ones from some of my girlfriends over wine. I have always loved the BDSM life style for most of my late teen and early adult life. I won’t say I am a hardcore expert, but I have been around the block a few times while looking deeper into the kinky sex world. BDSM is a huge world. It has so many different meanings for so many people. In this day of age, there is a fetish for everything and someone out there that shares the same interests. You've just got to know where to look to find the right person.
By Camille Ballentine7 years ago in Filthy
My First Week Without Porn
When I was in college, I had a serious problem. It didn’t have anything to do with alcohol or drugs, very little to do with lack of sleep or lack of a social life, or anything else one might commonly associate with college students experiencing their first taste of freedom outside of the nest. My problem was porn, and I was hopelessly addicted to it.
By Kyle Foster7 years ago in Filthy
The Allure of Public Sex
“I want to fuck you in Central Park!” So read one message that I received on Whisper, the app that is supposed to be anonymous but has turned into another place for people to hook up. The gentleman (using that word lightly here) didn’t even say hello, that was his first message. Two things that will be unpacked in future essays, first who starts off talking like that and does it usually work? Second, the guy claimed to be straight but knew an awful lot about gay sex. Most importantly though, it got me to wondering about why people are so turned on by sex in public.
By Edward Anderson8 years ago in Filthy
Yes, I Think Women Can Have a Cute Belly Button
When I was 19, before I realized that I loved women's legs, I Googled a lot of actresses in my spare time to see their beauty, but back when I was coming into discovering what I like regarding a woman's physical features, one was really unique to me: the belly button.
By Don Anderson II8 years ago in Filthy
Women's Legs Are So Beautiful
When I was 19, I had to go with my father figure to drop something off for my younger brother and sister at their school. We met the principal of the school and she was really pretty, but she wasn't my type, my father figure was probably checking her out as far as I know, since I was in my own world.
By Don Anderson II8 years ago in Filthy
The Puppet Fetish
“You can be as loud as the hell as you want, when you’re making love,” so croons Avenue Q’s Gary Coleman. Something to think about here, in the #MeToo age the song doesn’t hold up as it can be interpreted as being vaguely rape-y. Also, someone has likely jerked off to the song. While the Puppet fetish may have always existed, it’s about to become more mainstream, thanks to the new movie, The Happy Time Murders and of course the aforementioned off Broadway musical, Avenue Q.
By Edward Anderson8 years ago in Filthy
The Joy of Anal Sex
Anal sex is great. It’s an experience that is not easily forgotten by either party. And it’s one of the only experiences that heterosexual and homosexual couples can bond over. Is there anything anal sex can’t do? The answer to that question is no; it can do just about anything.
By Edward Anderson8 years ago in Filthy
I Am Not Going to Have Sex with You
Last weekend, I went on a date (or an outing) with a guy I met on a fetish site. For a whole year, this guy had messaged me over and over about making plans to meet up. When the one-year “anniversary” of his pursuit of me came around, I felt guilty. Here was a guy who seemed intelligent. He was a dominant and I’m a switch. He had a job and a car. And there I was, not even willing to meet up with him for a simple chat in a public place. So, I agreed to a date. We settled on a bar in the swankiest part of downtown, where we could get to know each other.
By Yemi Hircina8 years ago in Filthy
