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SexFiles: Part 3 (Brittany)
After Savannah, I was broken, I spent a while in and out of Juvi, found myself in a mental hospital on more than a few occasions, and basically gave up on love altogether. Then, I met Brittany. It IS kinda of messy how this all started with her, and I was older by a few years than she was. I was 18 when me and Brittany started fooling around, she had/has this childlike innocence that easily masks all of the pain and agony that she deals with on a daily. She's definitely someone who tends to try and find herself in other people. Now, at the time, I actually did care a lot about this girl. I was so blinded by having her around that I would even put myself in a position to be walked all over. She did mistreat me, but I took her purity and in that, she kind of just went crazy, became a slute for a while, and wound up with a daughter that she had to drop out of school for. This would be the story of WHEN I took her virginity.
By Zachery Lee9 years ago in Filthy
A Nineteen-Year-Old's Sex Diary Part 1
The first time I ever had sex I was sixteen years old. My parents think to this day that I am a virgin, probably due to the fact that my first love was a boy so Christian he went to church service twice a week and was involved in church activities almost every other day of the week.
By Iris9 years ago in Filthy
Meaningful Relationships in a Hook Up Culture
Why do we still consider penetrative sexual intercourse to be a “home run,” or the ultimate goal of a burgeoning relationship? The end all, be all, alpha and omega, pinnacle? College Humor addressed this question, years ago, in a video on their website (and here) but I want to dig in a little deeper.
By D. Gabrielle Jensen9 years ago in Filthy
Whore
There are two things in life that require bare naked truth and reciprocity between two people: sex and trust. These two things often coincide. One syllable words that are upheld as be all end all.
By Amy Baker9 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 2 (Savannah)
So, now that we've gotten over one of the worst, I want to dig into one of the best. This one lasted roughly 6 months to a year. I legitimately LOVED this girl with all of my heart, but, in the end, found out she had been unfaithful to me in my darkest days. Either way, I present to you, Savannah.
By Zachery Lee9 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 1 (Lost Beyond Innocence)
As I've been delving into these creative/descriptive writing pieces about my life, I couldn't help but trace back to some of these Sexual Conquests I've been in BUT, bringing them up in the context of the stories I've already posted would be inappropriate for the chosen site distribution...SO, I've decided to break them down, and get REALLY descriptive in them piece by piece. So here's from first to last, The most memorable Sexcapades of my lifetime.
By Zachery Lee9 years ago in Filthy
Underrated Sex Toys for Couples
In case you didn't know, the sex toy industry is estimated to be worth around $15 billion dollars. Yeah, billion. And the money actually comes mostly from married couples looking to add to their sex life. People of all genders, sizes, colors, and sexual orientations can benefit from adding an adult toy into their routine. But everyone thinks about the standards when they think sex toys: regular vibrators, handcuffs, and anal beads. But there's a lot more out there. Check out the list below to see the most underrated sex toys for couples.
By Yadim Shmaltz9 years ago in Filthy
Virginity: I
Now, I want to start this by saying: there is absolutely 0 things wrong with being inexperienced sexually, not being sexually active, or being a virgin. You are no better or worse of a person if you have or have not had sex. Virginity is a construct that was created to repress peoples basic desires, first out of a religious hatred of hedonistic freedom, and later as a pseudoscientific, sexist, "moral" one.
By Sam Faker9 years ago in Filthy
How To Say "I'm Horny" To Your Partner
If you're a woman, you're on the right side of the article. If you're a man then keep strolling. Everyone in their life, has had a feeling of wanting to feel satisfied in different ways. But what if one isn't comfortable with coming to their partner about it. Well it's not like some sort of schedule for sex. But there are fun ways to bring the subject up to a partner. No one should feel scared; like they're doing something wrong simply because everyone is human for one. As far as I'm concerned everyone has hormones.
By Ayana .9 years ago in Filthy
For What It's Worth
I don't know how I ended up here. I was always the "good child", the child that every adult in the family would wish their kids took after. Although those type of accolades never made me feel any better because it made me the most hated amongst my cousins, I knew I had great potential to be somebody one day. It's ironic that trying to be somebody and do it the right way got me into this mess, and now I am not so sure there is an escape route. I have gone to sleep with wet eyes and wet thighs too many nights that I have honestly lost count, and if my mother knew that this is the life that I had resorted to, she would disown -- if not KILL me!
By De'Ja Wilcher9 years ago in Filthy
Awake in the Night
She sat on the bed and watched him pack his clothes. "You can't do this Erik. You can't leave," Grace shouted as tears streamed down her cheeks.
By Ashley9 years ago in Filthy
The Generation That Lacks Commitment
Trying to create a meaningful relationship in a hook-up culture is a special kind of hell. Growing up I was always taught no sex before marriage (mainly because I was a church kid) which there is nothing wrong with! When you take a step back and look at the world today and the generations, all relationships are built on sex. Sex has become a foundation and communication has become a foreign language. Why is this a generation that feels the need to be loved by physical touch instead of meaningful conversations and emotional connection? Why is this a generation where sex has become so easy, emotionless, and meaningless? It's hard for an old soul to find a relationship on a level they crave because the level no longer exists. We live in a generation that is solely built on technology, the old school dating no longer exists. The chivalry and high standards are no longer a thing. Women feel the need to be with an abusive man, as men feel the need to be with a manipulative woman. The standard of men are sissies if they report abuse, or get abused is sickening. Society believes and is so consumed with the idea that women are the only victims when in reality, there are more male victims than female. The reason the statistics are non-existent is that of this standard and men are afraid. Men don't want to admit they have been a victim because it makes them appear to be less superior. Hooking up is more common; you have sites like Tinder and Grinder that have become the new dating sites. You have men and women used for sex trafficking and nothing is meaningful anymore. The reality of trying to find a serious relationship is depressing. The possibility of finding a man or a woman without a child is few and far between. Babies are born out of wedlock and not properly cared for. Abortion has become frowned upon and people feel the need to judge someone based on their choice without knowing the circumstances. Free will is becoming less of a thing because there are too many criticisms and threats place upon a person for having an OPINION. Opinions are NOW becoming an attack or viewed as an attack on certain people when it is literally just an opinion. What happened to the times, what is this world coming to and why is there such a need to give your body to anyone of the opposite sex? Trust is the main factor in a lot of relationships failing. Lying has become easier and easier with no conscious of how you're making the other feel. Cheating is more common and easily accessible. When you question yourself as to why this generation is so consumed with hooking up instead of having a relationship, that's why. There is no trust, no boundaries, no self-respect, no common courtesy, all of those things are non-existent. We are told we are loved by someone and take them at their word. We don't make sure they are being genuine, real and serious because what does that even look like now? Technology has ruined dating and relationships for everyone because there is no trust. No trust comes from technology, deep meaningful conversations are done through text message instead of in person. The lack of commitment comes from our role models, aka our parents and grandparents. Divorce is more common these days and no one wants to put an effort to keep and maintain a relationship because they don't know how. No one wants to try because of their insecurities. The generation is doomed and unsure how to deal with these things because our role models have failed us. Our friends and past relationships have failed us, we've become desensitized to the reality that a real relationship needs communication. Not makeup sex when times get tough, not control, it needs communication, trust, and honesty. It needs effort. Trying to find those things in this generation is a special kind of hell.
By CD9 years ago in Filthy