advice

Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

How to Not Woo a Woman
The world of dating is tough. Especially online dating. It seems like every time you want a real relationship, everyone else wants a hook-up and every time you want a hook-up, everyone else wants you to meet their mother and join their church and bare their children.
By Jessica Rowe8 years ago in Humans
Technology Is Ruining Our Lives
This generation has become so obsessed with technology, it is absolutely ridiculous. I know what you are thinking, “But you’re only 20 and using technology to write this article.” And you are right but I also know when to put the devices down.
By Mia Neel8 years ago in Humans
How I Attained a Nasty Nickname from My Own Crush, and How You Can Avoid It
It all started back in grade 8. I was mad in love with who I thought I’d marry, cheesy. But I mean I was 13, and had zero clue on what love actually was! Anyways, I was embarrassed about my feelings towards my crush, let’s call him T, because I’m too lazy to write "my crush." "T" was that kind of guy who only exclusively liked Asian girls. He said, “I want to connect with someone just like me.” I thought it was a great idea! I mean, I’m Asian, he’s Asain, that’s perfect! Plus "T" was every girl's crush (or at least a phase.) Back to my embarrassment, I only told certain people, but I kinda told the wrong person. I was talking to a friend, and he wanted to know who I liked, me being super stupid, I told him, “Oh I like ‘T’ but I’m just doing it to prank him.”
By Kathy Nguyen8 years ago in Humans
How to Survive a Long Distance Relaionship
Some couples meet at a coffee shop, some at concerts, and others through mutual friends. Not us; we met on an old dating site called MyYearbook.
By Anna Hash8 years ago in Humans
Relationships
Have you ever noticed your partner gazing into a romantic movie, eyes wide, jaw clenched? There is a reason, and you’re going to want to know what it is.
By Felicia Moreno8 years ago in Humans
How To Strengthen Any Relationship
What if I told you there is no such thing as overreacting? That the word "dramatic" is made up and instilled in your brain by societies misconstrued and conditioned belief that you are in fact able to pick and choose how you feel in any given moment? I'm here to tell you, during a moment someone may think or tell you you are overreacting, that in fact you are reacting justifiably, just to a different situation entirely.
By Summer Sheehan8 years ago in Humans
Letter to Lou
Dear Lou: Six years ago I met a man whom I dated consistently for three years. He was successful, adventurous and full of life. We always had a great time no matter what we did and we both supported each other in every way. I was 20 and he was 23. We were so young and considered each other our "first love." At 23, I was accepted into a graduate program in another state and knew I could not pass on this opportunity. He had a successful career in our hometown and could not move. We decided we were on two completely different paths and did not want to hinder each other from being successful. We separated. Since then we have dated other people and have had little to no contact. Three years have gone by and I moved back home about two months ago. Almost like clockwork he has been texting me and inviting me to hang out with him. I know he wants to rekindle our romance but so much time has passed, we have both grown and truthfully I don't know how long I will remain here. I have strong feelings towards him still but can't bare breaking his heart if I move away a second time. My career field has a high demand and I would jump at the opportunity to move to a larger city. Do I hang out with him and try to remain friendly? Do I avoid him? Should I rekindle the romance even if it is short-lived? HELP!
By Lou T.S.8 years ago in Humans
Stop Giving Away Your Happiness
“You are responsible for your happiness. In fact, you create it. You attract it. You manifest it. You are the architect of your reality. You choose your thoughts, your perceptions, and your reaction to external forces. You possess all the tools needed to expand your awareness, to orchestrate the evolution of your consciousness, to choose happiness, to choose love. You are that powerful. Create the life you deserve. Vibrate love.”
By M F8 years ago in Humans
The Three Stages of Love, Lust, and Happiness...
Relationships are blind... We all want happiness, love, and to want and be wanted... BUT not all of us want it in the same way. Going into a new relationship is scary! Exciting! Also let's be honest the sex isn't always too bad either! I like to think of a good relationship as having three stages or even phases if you will. Stage one there is the puppy dog stage, and this is the new relationship all over can't keep your hands to yourself phase. Then there is stage two. Stage two is the, okay we've met the family we are getting serious and we've been together for a hot minute now. Then finally there is a stage three... Now three is the tricky one, it's the most committed and most important. Stage three is when forever comes in, whether it's marriage or just deciding marriage isn't for you but you are still wanting to commit to this person for life.
By dystiney goodson8 years ago in Humans
Establish Clarity & Focus In Love Relationships
Clarity is imperative in having a peak performance relationship. Successful relationships require the masculine and feminine to be in alignment with their future goals.
By Mattie M.8 years ago in Humans
Are You Falling in Love with His Potential?
It’s a common wish among women. Some of us even daydream about it. For some lucky women this happens. They find that man or that man finds them, and they ride off in the sunset. For others, you find yourself involved with toads. When you meet them, they look like a prince, but once you kiss them they turn into ugly, green toads and make you wonder where the prince disappeared to that you first met.
By Janice Jade8 years ago in Humans
When Your Partner Left Someone To Be With You.... Top Story - December 2017.
You've found your soulmate! They are everything you expected them to be, and even more! You two couldn't be happier together and your friends and family are supporting you both — Congratulations! Seriously, finding your other half is a big deal, a wonderful event, and there is no reason why you two shouldn't be happy and thrive together. But let's be honest, some of the best romance stories friends like to hear are ones that are filled with juicy drama, and some of those best stories are about how you and your partner met but were both in different romantic relationships with other people at the time. If you live in a large city, let's say Houston, TX or San Diego, CA, the change of running into your partner's ex-boyfriend or girlfriend are extremely slim. However, if you live in Dartmouth, MA or in Las Cruces, NM, the possibility of seeing their ex increased. Whether you run into each other at the local market, between classes on campus, or see each other at the only cafe that has decent coffee in the entire town... Or even better (ha), happen to have mutual friends, here are some possibilities that the universe might throw your way — and some helpful tips:
By Elanda-Isabella Atencio8 years ago in Humans