breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

Haunted by the ghost of my ex
Have you felt so lost without someone. It's like you can't even do one simple task without thinking about them. Just when you think you are finally over it, moving on and regaining yourself, feeling alive again. Something switches and everything that was hits you all over again. The more I try to cut him and keep him out of my life only seems to be making things worse.
By anonymous 6 years ago in Humans
Assets
"What do you want!" Chelsea yells pacing the floor. "How dare you!"David lashes back, stretching his hand to grab her frail wrist.
By Tawana Calamari6 years ago in Humans
5 Signs You are wasting your time thinking about your Ex.
Are you still confused about your ex? Do you notice some signs that suggest your ex is coming back but you are not sure? Here are some signs your ex will never return to you no matter what you do.
By Onwe Damian Chukwuemeka6 years ago in Humans
Nightmare
I remember that night in flashbacks and shake my head to get the images out and your touch off of me. I can’t banish it no matter how hard I try to, so I do what I can to reclaim a life without that pain.
By Kay Husnick6 years ago in Humans
18 Questions I Asked My Ex About Our Breakup
If you were brave enough and could handle the truth would you want to know your ex's views on the breakup and how they feel now, or would you prefer to stay ignorant?
By Test6 years ago in Humans
Breaking Up: A Reason To Be Productive
Breaking up. Nobody said it would be easy. That doesn't mean it has to be impossible though, right? In fact, a bit of persistence and determination to better yourself can go a long way in those initial phases of heartbreak. With a little of this and a dollop of that, you'll find yourself on the mend and looking to much greener pastures in no time.
By Jord Tury6 years ago in Humans
An Open Letter to You.
I just ruined another relationship because of my lovely condition you would always refer to as "crazy". What I want to know is was I really crazy thinking you were cheating? It didn't seem like it when I caught you. But what's even worse is the fact that I punished another man for your sins when he would never do what you did. I set at home wondering what he's doing when he's with his friends. I wonder every second of everyday if I'm good enough for him and if I'm being cheated on. You did that to me. You want to talk about being crazy... you made me that way. But, this isn't a rant about the wrong you did, it's an open letter to you about how I'm growing stronger everyday with this.
By Kayla Lanae Ward6 years ago in Humans
I was Dumped Twice
Have you ever taken back an ex who broke your heart? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. I did the exact same thing. I was first dumped by the ‘love of my life’ in May of 2017 and then six months later he wanted me back. I took him back like a fool in love and a year and a half later I was dumped again in May of 2019. Is May a cursed month or is it me?
By Test6 years ago in Humans
the message I sent to my ex
... Please give me the respect to read this entire message when u have enough free time to take it in. Don’t skip over parts and don’t be reading it like you think like your better than me, or have done little wrong and that I’m the one exaggerating. Please know that I am beyond serious with everything I say and that I have never been this emotionally unstable before in my life. I want to let you know the way I’m feeling because you are the only person I still ever care about. Even though I know I shouldn’t be sending you this because it’s not really your issue anymore, but I need to.
By anonymous 6 years ago in Humans
5 Years
Everyone says that love is blind and that once you enter a relationship then you enter the honeymoon phase which doesn't last long! It took me five years to figure that out. Five long drawn out years to figure out I deserve better, I deserve to be happy!
By Ashley Reynolds6 years ago in Humans
Life After Gaslighting: What Healthy Relationships Are Supposed To Look Like
When you have been in a toxic relationship for a long time, it's hard to remember how a healthy relationship is supposed to function. Perhaps due to your upbringing, you never saw healthy relationships in action.
By Jessie Labrie6 years ago in Humans
I finally moved on from my ex
We were over long before we broke up, but when we officially broke up it hurt like hell. It took me 6 long months to get over him but I finally did it.
By Anna B6 years ago in Humans