breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
To the Boy Who Was Almost My Future
Sometimes we all make the mistake of falling in love far too fast. We look into the sparkling eyes of a new lover and dive head first into a shallow pool of roses. We never realize we are going to snap our necks... not until it’s too late.
By The Darkest Sunrise7 years ago in Humans
Dear Nobody
Dear Nobody, Yes, that's right, I took your name away because it no longer has power here. I trusted you when you were untrustworthy, and I loved you even though you don't know how to return love. I gave you my heart, but you truly, despite of all the time in the gym, were not strong enough to hold it. I believed in you, when you couldn't believe in us, let alone me. You, nobody are nothing, and maybe you never were.
By Cynthia Perez7 years ago in Humans
How to Get Over Someone After a Breakup
Ladies, getting over someone may be hard at first. But it is possible. When you break up with someone, the first thing you always think about is what may have happened for it to come to that point. Then you start thinking about all the happy moments that were shared. Lastly, you think of everything that wasn’t so great. Maybe that person cheated. Maybe you cheated. Maybe neither one of you know exactly the reason for the breakup, but it was something needed to be done. If you both know that the relationship can’t be fixed and you won’t be getting back together at all, here are some helpful tips that may help get your mind off of things.
By Lydia Vance7 years ago in Humans
In the Words of Padfoot
Dear Padfoot, I know you will never see this but I thought I would write this. I have to get my feelings out. I loved you. I don’t mean the thing you say when you are sixteen to your boyfriend or girlfriend of two weeks. But the kind where I considered it to be real. I no longer feel that way about you. I now have stronger feelings for someone else. I felt betrayed by you. I felt upset that you threw away a four-year friendship on a whim. From what I’ve heard recently you have done this to a lot of people. I’m sorry you and Holly didn’t work out. I kinda already knew it wouldn’t work. So, I will leave it at that. Luke has taught me that sometimes its better to let people go rather than keep them in your life when they nothing to help you get better. I depended on you for my happiness and stability which wasn’t fair on you I get that. But a true friend wouldn’t leave when I push them away. Luke never has. Through all the shit I throw his way he breaks down my barriers and gets me to open up. You never did that for me. What you still hadn’t learnt about me is that I don’t just open up you need to get it out of me with a hammer and chisel. You have to dig and dig to find the issue that needs to be talked about otherwise I won't talk about it. But then you wouldn’t know that because it was all poems and metaphors which never really helped me. But I loved them because I loved you. That’s over now. I don’t love you anymore.
By Gabby Evans7 years ago in Humans
10 Signs Your Ex Is Haunting You
I've been ghosted. You've been ghosted. Ghosted, ghosted, ghosted. In modern society, ghosting has become the "law of the West." The culture of ghosting is everywhere because we're all yellow-bellied individuals with no sense of integrity.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy7 years ago in Humans
Heart Break
If there’s one thing in this world I could ever ask for is your love once more. Even if it lasts for a night, I just want another taste of it. Without you, I am nothing, I am a shell of someone I forced myself to become. This confident boy you see is just a facade, without you. I hide behind it, so you don’t realize that not having you as mine is killing me. I act cocky, and like an asshole, because I’m ashamed of showing my real face. Ashamed of letting you see I’m crushed when you’re gone. What hurts the most is remembering how you used to look at me. During those quiet moments that we shared, just you and me, with no care in the world. The only thing that mattered to me in that moment was you.
By Fin Shepard7 years ago in Humans
12 Signs of Walkaway Wife Syndrome (Before It Happens)
Everyone knows at least one former couple that seemed so happy until they broke up out of nowhere. The wife seemed happy, the husband was thrilled, and the overall vibe seemed great. Then, when the breakup occurred, all the secrets got spilled out. She cheated, he hit her, and suddenly you’re wondering what you really knew about your friends.
By Sasha Konikovo7 years ago in Humans
How to Get Back at an Ex (While Still Being Classy)
"Revenge is a dish best served cold."—Proverb I'm a person who has seen the ugly side of humanity, and its ugliest faces have revealed themselves to me in the dating scenes. I've seen abusers, thieves, users, cheaters, and narcissists put good, innocent people through unspeakable amounts of pain.
By Iggy Paulsen7 years ago in Humans
The Healer and the Anti-Hero
I knew you were an anti-hero from the start. Neither a villain, or a hero. I suppose the good thing about is you don't pretend to be someone you're not. You fully know you're not the bad guy, but you're also not the good guy either. You carry a sense of morals with just a dash of bad-assery. You have a moral compass but you only follow it when it suits you. I knew all these things about you, but yet I somehow ended up talking to you anyway. Knowing it meant trouble. Knowing it meant that you would only care when it was convenient. Knowing that you're damaged goods.
By Woman With an Edge7 years ago in Humans
