breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

Broken Chapter 6
I’ve actually been dreading writing this one, I couldn’t tell you why exactly. It’s been just over a month so I need to tell this story before it disappears from my mind completely. It is ever so slightly, still raw. Sometimes I think I fail at putting how I really feel into words. Maybe it comes across more passionately than I actually feel, maybe it sounds like I feel more than I do. The truth is I’m usually well over someone I dated for a brief time. I think this one really got under my skin.
By Gia Timon8 years ago in Humans
Broken Chapter 7
What is love? Have I ever even been in love? What is the meaning of love? These are the questions I ask myself since being truly single the past few weeks. I question everything. The beauty of my anxiety, it makes you think about every aspect of your life and what you’ve done wrong. At almost 1 AM I wish my mind would quiet, these are the times I wish my post breakup insomnia would disappear. The only thing to help is writing and drinking, or so I say to excuse my recent alcoholism.
By Gia Timon8 years ago in Humans
Broken Chapter 2
So scene opens. Picture an overweight, blubbering mess—hasn’t been washed or left the apartment in days. Not much in the way of food is evident, and a mountain of empty wine bottles from the local Tesco express. Bonus of staying in an apartment that’s above a supermarket when you’re going through the worse breakup imaginable.
By Gia Timon8 years ago in Humans
The Black Widow and The Angler Fish
I focus on the cracked paving stones as I walk in the mid-March darkness. The cold air lapping at my post shower face. I had decided today that I would turn my life around. Deleted dating apps, check. Focused on work, check. Positivity overboard, check. Even told my best friend about my new plan and my positivity. Obviously with her knowing me so well she came out with the comment ‘We’ll see how long that lasts before you’re back to it’ Thanks Joy. But to be fair she has dealt with me for the past three months and heard it a lot in that time. She’d put up with so much, I could see a wave of relief come over her face, because we would be moving in together in the next few months.
By Gia Timon8 years ago in Humans
10 Relationship Podcasts That Can Help You Get Over Any Breakup
So many of us have gotten through a breakup or a couple in our lives and most of the time, it's heart breaking. From losing a loved one that lasted for a couple of months to even a couple of years, there are some people who can brush it off while others mourn for months. Either one of them is completely normal; everyone faces breakups differently. There isn't a specific reaction everyone is supposed to have, it depends on the type of relationship and the person's attitude towards it.
By Rachel Blanchard8 years ago in Humans
7 Radical and Fun Ways to Get over a Breakup
It’s over. Time feels wasted. Your heart feels diminished, and you are absolutely devastated. We’ve all been through it before, and many of us will go through it many times. When you’re a broken mess, it’s hard to do anything besides eating tubs of ice cream and trying to watch your favorite shows instead of going to work, and refusing to see people. But you can’t let that stop you. I’ve compiled a list of ways to get over a breakup that are healthy and productive. Instead of eating ice cream and moping around, these will give you outcomes you deserve.
By Lexi Z8 years ago in Humans
To the Boy Whose Heart I Broke
To the boy whose heart I broke, I'm sorry. You were a vivid soul, a bright beacon of blazing fire in my mind overgrown with mold. You saved my life, and I was almost responsible for ending yours.
By Elle 8 years ago in Humans
All These Words yet I'm Still Unable to Close Your Chapter
"It hits so hard, holding onto my chest. Maybe you left your mark, reminding me to forget.” -Kygo All these words. Never enough to understand. Never enough words to justify. Never enough to heal. Never enough to end.
By M F8 years ago in Humans
Who You Were Breaking
It’s been two months. Two months since my first but last devotion. Two months without a hand to provide self-luxury. Two months missing the warmth of a welcoming chest belonging to my lover and the fervor of his character. Two months without a heartbeat. In these two months I have become an addict to an accustomed feeling that claws its way out of my chest. Perhaps, that was too broad of a statement.
By amina8 years ago in Humans
Dear Ex's
I am not here to disrupt your life or disturb you in any way. I do not want to set your healing time back by having a presence in your life that is not wanted. Our breakup wasn't easy, in fact, it was terrible and I never thought I would recover, but time is a magical healer and with time came reflection.
By Billi Fox8 years ago in Humans
My Last
How could I ever really tell you the truth? How can I ever love you endlessly when my heart continues to stop me from loving you. You have been my heartbeat through all of this and I can only wish I could do the same for you. The love you have for me is too powerful for me to take in. Too difficult for me to care for. I love you. I've always known that. and I care so much about you, and I will always be here when you need me. And you will always do the same for me. You have know no idea how much I appreciate you but just because I appreciate you doesn't mean we should be together. I never meant for all of this to happen. I tried. I begged the lord and everyone to help me love you again. But I can't force my love. The reason I let you go all the time is so that your feelings grow no more for me.. whilst I sit here and pout about how I can't help my feelings. It's not fair to you. You deserve someone who loves you the way you want to be loved and you may be blind, stubborn, hardheaded, and so much more to everything I say but you know I'm right about this. You didn't believe you could ever love again after your ex, but here I am showing you wrong. You fell in love with me and continue with this belief of yours that you'll never love again. As a woman, I know you will love again and when you do I will be there, in your mind of course. And you'll remember the very moment I told you that you will find love again. And you'll realize how very much correct I was. And then you will understand why it could never work between us.
By 8 years ago in Humans
Not This Road
When we all were kids we swore to the D.A.R.E program that we would never drink or smoke. When we got to middle and high school we didn't give it much thought anymore. Now after high school and in college, we damn sure don't care and probably do it every day of the week. Some of the people we grew up with are doing it all and selling it and you think that they're the same or you probably notice something is different about them but you still don't really care. Some of the dudes that you are into you know sell and indulge and some you don't know. You find out later..
By Doe H8 years ago in Humans