family
Family unites us; but it's also a challenge. All about fighting to stay together, and loving every moment of it.
Apsley in the 70's
Feeling the cool, refreshing water caress my skin and my long sun-kissed hair tickle the small of my back, I came up out of the water. I had to carefully steady myself on the boulder in the water because it was still slippery from the algae my mom had asked me to sweep away with the broom. It was a hot, humid, summer day in cottage country just outside of the hamlet of Apsley, near Peterborough, Ontario.
By Annette Schedler-Issler5 years ago in Humans
Home isn't a Place, its a Feeling
When I was younger home only meant one thing to me. It was the place that I lived in. Even after my parents spit, home was where my dad lived and the other was where my mom lived. It was those houses, even if they changed every now and then.
By Shari Baeuerlen5 years ago in Humans
Gator Hunting
My mother is quite an incredible human – no fear, no regrets. She is full of confidence and power. She does not maintain a nurturing or graceful spirit. When she was diagnosed with cancer, she was at peace with whatever outcome might present itself. She was confident in her spiritual home but willing to fight with everything in her body. However, with her diagnosis, also came a sense of adventure – a need to ‘live like she was dying’. Thank you, Tim McGraw, your wisdom has sparked life into many drab, lifeless souls. Please understand, that for someone who is not gentle or nurturing, a sense of adventure truly becomes a series of accosting your loved ones with reckless behavior and reprimanding any level on wariness. In what appeared to be a sweet, loving, gesture, my mother suggested that my sisters and I join her for a trip to Florida. One weekend of bonding and sharing sweet memories. I was thrilled! We planned the whole trip in advance – my sisters would go to Disney, my mother and I would spend the day shopping and communicating about her life, her wishes, her dreams. She did have one simple request – she would like to go on a gator hunting expedition. I reluctantly agreed… Surely, as tourists, we would be in a fairly controlled environment, right? She purchased tickets for the activity which confirmed my belief that this would be a mild introduction into the life of an alligator – little did I know, we were about to understand the depths of Steve Irwin’s soul. On the day of the escapade, all was as expected. We did shop, talk about our hopes and dreams – I ensured that I understood my mother’s wishes if she were to pass due to the illness. We stopped for lunch at a quaint little sushi restaurant where we were served fresh sushi with KC Masterpiece BBQ sauce – I should have known at this point that the day was not going to be a treasured memory. From lunch, she explained that we were headed to go gator hunting. Whew. This. Is. What. We. Play. For. I was nervous. I expected to arrive at a venue – no. We arrived at the address provided, which was a gas station – really, it was a shed that sold chips because it had not sold gas since the 1980s. Mom has no inhibitions. No red flags. Another car arrives – a 1986 red pinto with a yellow door. The man that steps out is slim, he has sunken cheeks and his movements are a bit disjointed. It would appear that this man has found the secret to happiness. Meth is quite magical. He has a partner, however, the second is not memorable. They motion for us to meet them in the building – my mother sends me alone. Once in the building, the man requests my tickets for the gator hunting. NO. STOP. This is not real. This is not the gator hunting experience. It is. I am now informed that my mother has purchased the experience on Groupon – some things you just cannot bargain shop. We sort out the details of payment and are instructed to follow the shiny sports car to the swamp. As the man enters his vehicle, he most certainly felt cramped, as he did not put his left leg in with him, instead, he rested it out of the car window. We followed the pinto down a dirt road and into a field. Still no concern from my mother. I wish I held her level of confidence. I cannot stop praying. If nothing else, I am confident in my salvation. We park and exit and our guide leads us to a structure of rotted wood and ropes – he calls it a dock. There is an airboat tied to the construction, however, it more resembled a canoe with a large fan. We board the vessel. I am shaking. This contraption is supposed to keep us safe from gators – large, angry, aggressive, gators. We are provided with life jackets but informed that in the event that a gator attacks us, the life jacket will not provide life saving measures. Solid. We push into the water – no going back now. My knuckles are white from gripping the bar in front of me. I look towards my mother. She is smiling – she will be committed to a facility upon our return. I have the proof I need – she is insane. The fan is started and our boat is floating across the water. WE ARE HURTLING THROUGH THE AIR SLIGHTLY ABOVE GATOR INFESTED WATERS… we stop periodically to view an eye, a nostril, a tail, a back poking out of the water. The monsters are everywhere and we can no longer see land. There is no option to swim to safety. Our guide is dying for a hit of something. He can no longer form sentences. I cant breathe. This is actually how I am going to die. I meth addict in Florida is going to dump me in a swamp with gators. After nearly an hour of anticipating my own end, our boat glides back to the dock. We are on land but we are not safe. The guides feel that we were not provided with enough of a hands on experience. They duck behind a tree and reappear with a 6’ gator. He has electrical tape around his mouth but his tail is thrashing. This creature feels the same way about his captors as I do. I am instructed to hold the angry monster, his name is Fluffy – I do not. My mother has never been more disappointed in me. I am convinced now that she is the one that intends to murder me. It’s the perfect crime. I find our car and message my sisters for help. They are not in a position to assist, see, they have just been kicked out of Disney. Bless them. We now have a reason to leave! I gather my mother and thank the guides – they seem disappointed that we will not be joining them for dinner. It was a beautiful drive home as I informed my mother that she would no longer be allowed to make independent decisions.
By Abigail Freeman 5 years ago in Humans
Roots
My father was by no means a professional genealogist. He taught history at the local high school and spent too much time in the library. Between grading papers, he would look up public records, attempting to document his broken lineage. Sitting in rush hour traffic, he would map out his family tree in his head. A rush of leaves falling from a single branch when he found sixteen children from a single set of parents. A branch broken when he found out a family had succumbed to a disease curable today, but deadly in the 19th century.
By Patricia Riordan5 years ago in Humans
The Little Black Book
The morning Aunt May fell down the stairs, I knew that I would have to move into her house and help her. Luckily, she did not get hurt but after her scare, she didn’t want to be there by herself anymore. I was in the process of looking for a new place after my landlord sold the property, so it worked out for me.
By Jacqueline Bowser5 years ago in Humans
Using Death To Fight Hatred
Millionaire George Stubbs, his wife, and their lawyer arrived early, sat in the courtroom waiting on the judge, along with the Coroner and the doctor who attends to his only son. Other relevant people and various newspaper representatives across the country were there too.
By Annelise Lords 5 years ago in Humans
A Gift From History
I hated funerals and everything that came with it. The crying, the grieving, the heavy feeling of loss permeating the air. Everything about funerals felt like being sucked into a black hole of nothingness. It provided a painful reminder of the inevitable. Death was something that was attached to the human existence, and yet, we all secretly wanted to avoid it.
By Jasmyn Taylor5 years ago in Humans
RelationDips
The search for a new home began with the news that the owner of our home was selling up, and not offering a lease extension. Thus, after fourteen months, it was time to move-not our choice, but such are the perils inherent in renting. Truth be told we had been 'moving' in our minds for a little while before our lease was terminated. What had served our family well, was no longer quite what we needed. I started looking around, first online, then visiting houses for the mandatory physical inspection. This is the fun part. It's also very educational.
By D.A. Cairns5 years ago in Humans
