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Advice and tips on managing mental health, maintaining a positive outlook and becoming your happiest self.

What makes us medioce?
At work and in life, most of the time we want to get ahead, just like in the village, we want others to respect us and make us feel great. But we are very sorry to find that no matter how strong our subjective desire is, we are still very mediocre in the end, and do not become the kind of people in our imagination. Why is this? Based on my own short life experience and the information I get from reading books, I think it's not just external causes and birth defects that cause this, but our own subconscious choice of mediocrity. This is very paradoxical. On the surface, we do not want to be mediocre, but why do we choose mediocrity subconsciously?
By premiere 4 years ago in Psyche
Am I Being Abused?
How do you tell if you're being emotionally abused? A lot of people who have never been abused get confused. After all, how does a person not know they are being abused? Well, that's the fun part of emotional and mental abuse and abusive individuals. Generally abusive relationships never start out abusive.
By Hope Martin4 years ago in Psyche
5 Ways to Remain Positive When You are Surrounded by Toxic People
When certain people in your life are causing you stress, your best bet is to avoid them, but this may not always be feasible. So you need to learn to protect your soul from the negativity of those around you. You should start by figuring out who in your life is bringing in negative vibes, and then devise a plan to shield yourself from them.
By Cosmin Child4 years ago in Psyche
The truth of Covid
I have written about covid before in my story right around the time when most of the states had lifted their restrictions. To the best of my knowledge, Hawaii was the last state to do so. I finally traveled to see my son in CA in June 2022. Since I chose not to be vaccinated, my daily life was somewhat restricted, especially while the state required the vaccine passport to enter any government offices and restaurants.
By Ayumi Hino Gerads4 years ago in Psyche
The 4 most worthwhile things to do when people are at a low point
Sanmao once said in "Give You a Horse": "How is the heart, like a maze, thousands of miles away, Among them, there is no boatman who can cross people. Except for crossing himself, no one else can help. "
By 亚尔林4 years ago in Psyche
philosophy of life
1. A smile when misunderstood is a kind of literacy; a calm smile when wronged is a kind of generosity; a happy smile when a loss is a kind of open-mindedness; a self-deprecating smile when you are in a dilemma is a kind of generosity Wisdom; an optimistic smile when helpless is a state; a calm smile when in distress is a kind of atmosphere; a calm smile when you are contemptuous is a kind of self-confidence; a gentle smile when you are lost in love is a kind of Free and easy.
By Luna卢娜4 years ago in Psyche
The philosophy of life struggle
1. The trick to learning a lot is not to learn a lot at once. - Locke 2. Be the master of time, the master of fate, and the helmsman of the soul. - Roosevelt
By Luna卢娜4 years ago in Psyche
learn to play against yourself
My father loves chess very much, and when I talk about chess, I get energetic. When I am happy, he likes to talk about chess games with us. He often says: "Don't look at this little chess, you have a lot of knowledge. This one-on-one game is a battlefield without gunpowder smoke. , relying on wisdom, relying on cultivation, and relying on courage. The chess game is ever-changing, the chess situation is uncertain, the chess moves are down, the key is the key, and if one is not careful, the whole game is lost, such as chess encounters with opponents, details Success or failure is often determined. It is said that life is like chess, and chess is like life, but it is the same. There is a world in chess, and there is a world in chess. I don't know how to play chess. I've been bothered by my father's chess theory since I was a child. After listening to it for a long time, I also remember it. Today, on a whim, I have an abrupt idea of trying to write this chess theory. It's really a layman's jargon. Don't be afraid to make fun of you.
By Luna卢娜4 years ago in Psyche
Optimism is important
1. Carnegie, the father of world success, has a very important concept: your life is caused by your mentality, what kind of mentality you have, what kind of life you have, and what kind of choice you have what kind of result. A piece of white paper can be thrown on the ground as waste paper and trampled on, it can also be painted and written, and it can be folded into a paper airplane, flying high and high, making people look up.
By Luna卢娜4 years ago in Psyche
Youth message
Time changes, the appearance is easy to old, counting the time unchanged infatuation, waiting day by day, watching the sunset at dusk, and then to the dawn to meet, listening to the ebb and flow, and then to the exhaustion of the sea, enjoying the flowers bloom , and then to the dream fly, feeling sprinkling. Love you, is the best thing I have ever done, but love me, but let you have the tore heart crack lung like pain.
By 薇薇安 Vivian4 years ago in Psyche
Years are not lonely - the rain falls on the palm and wets the memories
The rain fell on the palm of the hand, wet the memory, do you still remember the dream of youth? Time is safe, reminds me of you back then. That year, I made a wish that you would never leave.
By Luna卢娜4 years ago in Psyche
Are there social truths that ordinary people will never see?
1. The interests of the upper classes come with their own sickles, and the ideas of the lower classes come with their own shields. The endless stream of interests at the top comes from the belief that the bottom is indestructible. The more people who want to pierce this truth, the easier it is to become a victim of the times.
By Derasom4 years ago in Psyche