Emily Chan - Life and love sharing
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Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing
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When "I Love You" Means "I Love Me": Reclaiming Your Landscape
You don't have to walk a path with someone while you're wounded. Not everyone is worth your efforts. The person who claims to love you keeps asking you to give in. They've given in to no end, yet you're still so alone.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
A Choice for Clarity
I'd rather live a simple life alone than get caught up in a complicated relationship with all its complex feelings. A relationship that should have ended long ago might be prolonged, but it will never lead to a successful conclusion. Even if an unsuitable person enters your life, they will eventually leave.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
The Observer's Compassionate Perspective
People who truly understand life often prefer to be observers rather than performers. When they reach a certain level of understanding, they gain a "God's perspective." From this vantage point, the world no longer appears bustling and prosperous; instead, it reveals itself as a realm where all living beings are suffering, each with their own unique pain. In this reality, everyone is both pitiful and, in some way, detestable.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Can "Just Right" Be Life's Sweet Spot?
The quote, All good things are not as good as just right, and I can strongly relate to this. Life is something that we tend to live in pursuit of perfection and to achieve the best in all things, but we tend to be focused on the small and natural moments of joy. I once worked day and night to achieve success in my career and reach exhaustion. I lost the opportunity to enjoy family life with my loved ones, although I experienced some success. I never knew what goodness was until I came to see the lost looks on the faces of my family as a result of my absence, and suddenly I knew that goodness was not about something out there that glorifies you, goodness is about something that fits and something that is warm and good when you are with your family.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Effortless Connections and Self-Discovery
It's only now that I realize the people who are genuinely good to me aren't the ones I have to work hard to get to know. Instead, they're the ones I feel comfortable and natural with right away, allowing me to connect with them effortlessly.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Which title best captures the essence of moving on from a one-sided love?
When love fades, the most honest choice is to accept it. There's no need for explanations, no need to ask "why," and no need to make humble attempts to keep someone who no longer wants to stay. No matter what you do, the other person no longer cares. They won't be moved, nor will they feel your pain. Their cold departure is the result of a long-awaited weighing of the pros and cons.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Do You Hold On or Let Go?
"If you want something, let it go. If it returns, it was always yours. If it doesn't, it never was." When we cry, it's often from pain. Pain arises from caring, and caring from having feelings. To have feelings is simply to be human. So, if you have feelings, if you care deeply, if you've been hurt, and if you've shed tears, it means you are a complete person, in every sense of the word. When sadness strikes, be kind to yourself. You are only human; there's no need to demand invincibility from yourself.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Ready to Grow Up in Love?
Let us grow through the setbacks of love and become emotionally mature adults. Being perpetually willful and stubbornly set in your ways will not make you lovable or foster a genuine connection. Instead, you simply need to be a brave adult. It's only then that you will attract and meet another equally resolute adult.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
