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What Is A Cross Dresser
The term cross-dresser describes a person who, on occasion or regularly, wears clothing and adopts styles traditionally associated with a gender other than the one they were assigned at birth or the gender with which they primarily identify. It is an umbrella term for a behavior—the act of crossing conventional gender boundaries in dress—and not, in itself, a specific gender identity or sexual orientation.
By David Femboy15 days ago in Pride
What Triggers Cross Dressing
The term "cross-dressing" wearing clothing and adopting styles traditionally associated with a gender other than one's own encompasses a vast and deeply personal spectrum of human behavior and expression. It is not a monolithic act with a single cause, but rather a behavior that can be triggered or motivated by a wide array of psychological, social, sexual, and cultural factors. Understanding these triggers requires moving beyond stereotypes to appreciate the complex interplay of identity, desire, and context.
By David Femboy16 days ago in Pride
What is AFAB?
In the evolving and vital conversations about gender, identity, and inclusion, the acronym AFAB has become increasingly important. Standing for Assigned Female At Birth, AFAB is a precise, factual term used to describe the sex designation typically given to an infant based on observable physical anatomy at birth primarily the presence of a vulva and vagina.
By David Femboy16 days ago in Pride
Is Asexual Straight
This is a profoundly important and common question that gets to the very heart of how we understand human sexuality and romantic attraction. The simple, direct answer is: No, asexuality is not inherently straight, gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Asexuality is its own, separate sexual orientation. However, the full picture is more nuanced and beautiful, as it encompasses the rich diversity of the asexual (or "ace") experience.
By David Femboy16 days ago in Pride
What Does Amab Mean
In conversations surrounding gender identity, sexuality, and social justice, you may have encountered the acronym AMAB. It’s a term that carries significant weight and nuance, yet its meaning is often misunderstood or oversimplified. Standing for Assigned Male At Birth, AMAB is a factual, clinical descriptor used to acknowledge the sex designation typically given to an infant based on observable physical anatomy, usually external genitalia.
By David Femboy16 days ago in Pride
Family Warmth in a Time of Change.
Family Warmth in a Time of Change In the 1980s, marriage often looked like a staircase wide enough for a whole world to gather on it. Not just the bride and groom, not even just their parents, but cousins, neighbors, childhood friends, the aunt who cried before anyone else did, the uncle who tried to look stern and failed, the grandmother who carried history in her posture, and the little ones who didn’t yet understand why this day mattered but felt its electricity anyway.
By Sayed Zewayed16 days ago in Families
The Silent Rooms: Life Without Children
By Hazrat Umer A True Story of Marriage, Hope, and the Empty Cradle I got married in 2011. It was a year filled with the kind of joy that is hard to put into words. Like every young man, I had dreams. I remember sitting with my wife in our new home, talking about the future. We didn't just talk about our careers or our travels; we talked about the children we would one day hold in our arms. We imagined the sound of tiny feet running down the hallway. We even thought about names. In 2011, the world felt like it was at our feet, and the promise of a big, happy family felt like a certainty.
By Hazrat Umer16 days ago in Families
Why Emotional Intelligence Matters More Than Obedience in Modern Parenting. AI-Generated.
For many parents, obedience has long been considered the ultimate goal of good parenting. A “well-behaved” child was seen as a successful outcome. I used to believe the same thing. If my child listened, followed rules, and stayed quiet in public, I felt I was doing my job correctly. Over time, however, I began to notice something troubling. While my child was obedient, they struggled to express emotions, handle frustration, and communicate needs in healthy ways. This realization led me to question an important assumption: Is obedience really more important than emotional intelligence? Understanding Emotional Intelligence in Children Emotional intelligence is the ability to recognize, understand, and manage emotions—both one’s own and those of others. For children, this skill is foundational. It influences how they handle conflict, build relationships, and cope with stress throughout life. Children with strong emotional intelligence are more likely to: express feelings clearly instead of acting out, regulate emotions during stressful situations, show empathy toward others, develop resilience and confidence. Unlike obedience, emotional intelligence does not come from control or fear. It grows through guidance, modeling, and emotional safety. The Limits of Obedience-Based Parenting Obedience-focused parenting often relies on authority and consequences. While this approach may produce short-term compliance, it can unintentionally suppress emotional development. When children are taught to obey without understanding, they may: follow rules out of fear rather than awareness, struggle to make decisions independently, feel disconnected from their emotions, hide feelings instead of processing them. I realized that my child was learning what to do, but not why they were doing it—or how to manage the emotions behind their behavior. Shifting the Focus: From Control to Guidance The turning point came when I began prioritizing emotional understanding over immediate compliance. Instead of asking, “Why won’t you listen?” I started asking, “What are you feeling right now?” This shift changed everything. When conflicts arose, I slowed down the interaction. I acknowledged emotions before addressing behavior. I made space for conversations instead of commands. The goal was no longer obedience—it was connection and learning. Teaching Skills That Last a Lifetime When parents focus on emotional intelligence, discipline becomes a teaching tool rather than a punishment. Here are some practical changes that helped: Naming emotions aloud to build emotional vocabulary Validating feelings without excusing harmful behavior Setting clear boundaries with calm consistency Encouraging problem-solving instead of blame Over time, my child began responding differently. Emotional outbursts decreased. Communication improved. Most importantly, my child started developing confidence in handling emotions independently. The Mental Health Connection Emotional intelligence plays a critical role in mental health. Children who are supported emotionally are better equipped to manage anxiety, stress, and social challenges. By fostering emotional awareness early, parents help reduce: chronic stress, emotional suppression, feelings of shame or inadequacy. I noticed that as emotional intelligence increased, our home environment became calmer. Conflicts no longer felt like battles. They became opportunities for growth. Respect Builds Cooperation One of the biggest surprises was that cooperation increased—not decreased—when obedience stopped being the primary focus. When children feel respected and understood, they are more willing to cooperate naturally. Respect does not eliminate boundaries. It strengthens them. Children learn that rules exist for safety and well-being, not control. This understanding builds internal motivation rather than external pressure. Rethinking Success in Parenting Parenting success should not be measured by silence or compliance. It should be measured by a child’s ability to: understand emotions, communicate needs, recover from mistakes, build healthy relationships. Emotional intelligence equips children for real life—long after childhood rules no longer apply. Final Thoughts Obedience may create order, but emotional intelligence creates strength. When parents invest in emotional development, they raise children who are not only well-behaved—but emotionally capable, resilient, and compassionate. In a world filled with challenges, emotional intelligence is not optional. It is essential.
By Zia Djamel16 days ago in Families
