Lifestyle
For the lives that we love, and everything that comes with it.
What Fathers Uniquely Provide
The Error of Treating Parenting Roles as Functionally Identical Modern parenting theory often begins with the assumption that mothers and fathers are largely interchangeable, differing only in style or temperament. From this view, any deficits in one parent can be compensated for by the other through increased emotional effort, sensitivity, or presence. Parenting becomes a question of intention and quantity rather than function and role. This assumption is appealing because it aligns with cultural preferences for symmetry and fairness, but it collapses under closer examination of developmental outcomes.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast15 days ago in Families
Living Apart From Your Family
My family moved out of the country in 2013. I chose to stay behind with my now–husband because I knew I would never see him again if I had gone with my parents. It was the most difficult decision I’ve ever had to make, but I think it was the right one for me. We are a close family, which made it even more difficult, and the plan was to meet them in the new country after a few years. This is still the plan, but “We’ll meet you there in four or five years” turned into “We’ll meet you there in about ten to twelve years after you left because life kinda sucks and moving is expensive”.
By Violet Wright15 days ago in Families
What No One Tells You About Grief
Most of us have lost a close family member or friend. That person who helps you through the day without even realizing it. That person whom you’ve known for so long that you can’t remember a time without them. The problem is, life can kinda suck sometimes, and with that, it can suck the happiness out of your day-to-day without you realizing what’s happened.
By Violet Wright15 days ago in Families
I Wasn’t Lazy, Broken, or Behind — I Was Carrying Too Much Guilt
I used to feel guilty and ashamed whenever something didn’t go as planned. I’ve always been a person trying to plan everything to make sure that I don’t end up crying or find myself in blue. But as it is said, nothing ever goes as planned in this world. It is not that I’m blaming something or someone. It’s just, I’ve tried many times that whenever, I’ve tried to be a better person or to do good. I end up making things difficult. So much so that my loved ones start to step aside.
By Mubarik Ahmad 15 days ago in Men
From the Rainy UK to the Sunny Italian Soul: My First 100 Days 🇮🇹
At the age of 20, I left Poland with a head full of dreams and moved to the United Kingdom. I spent a decade there—ten long years of growing up, learning the British way of life, and getting used to the grey skies and the fast-paced, often solitary lifestyle of the Isles. But recently, I decided to follow my heart. Driven by a long-distance relationship and a spark of intuition, I traded my stable life in the UK for a country I knew almost nothing about.
By Piotr Nowak15 days ago in Families
"These Children Come Here to Grow Us Up"
I wrote the beginning of this in 2023. When I put my youngest son on the special education preschool bus last school year, I smiled and waved at a tiny girl usually wearing pink. She sometimes returned that smile and said "hi". Later, I helped in my autistic son's classroom and discovered other funny things about the little girl: she always lost her shoes (or took them off), she loved dumping everything out, and she could be stubborn and yell "no!" when you asked her to put it away.
By Eileen Davis15 days ago in Families
